Friday, March 27, 2009

Sharing, How Far Can You Go?

Sedikit catatan aja, kenapa saya jadi kepikiran nulis begini...

#1: Sharing pake ponsel
Buat saya, ponsel itu barang pribadi, yang sama pribadinya dengan underwear. Haha. Bedanya, kalo underwear ga diliyat-liyatin ke orang laen.
Kalo ponsel, willy nilly pasti kliyatan. Haha. Tapi, saya pribadi rada punya prinsip, ga ada yang boleh utak atik ponsel saya, kecuali diminta.
Why?
Saya sering ngalamin hal-hal menyebalkan dari ponsel yang disharing. Contoh: bebas buka new message.

Suatu sore, saya sms temen, sumthing very important and need her early respond. Saya tungguin satu, dua, tiga jam, no respond.
Ya udin, walau saya butuh respond temen saya ini, tapi saya ga sampe nelpon. Bisi terkesan maksa. Padahal mah emang need her early respond. Yeah, si gue kan emang bukan tukang paksa orang dan masih punya malu. Heuheu.. saya diemin dulu, deh.

Besoknya, masih juga ga ada respon. Sampe saya sudah membuat limit waktu respond expired. Saya anti sms dua kali untuk hal yang sama. Wasting time and pulsa, terutamanya mah. Hahahaha.

Ada lah, kisaran 4-5 hari dari hari saya nunggu respon temen saya itu, saya baru dapat sms responnya.
Ah! Basi tau! Tapi saya baca apology nya juga, dia bilang sms saya dibukanya ama mamanya. Trus kelupaan kasi tau dan pas temen saya itu beresin inbox di ponsel (baca: deletin sms2 lama), dia nemu sms saya dan merasa belum pernah baca.
Okay, enough! Sebel banget ajjjjjjaaaaaaaaaah!

Dan ini bukan sekalinya saya mengalami hal ini. Udah beberapa kali, dengan orang yang berbeda, hampir semuanya yang buka tuh istri/suaminya. Dan sama juga: LUPA KASIH TAU ada sms dari saya. Most of them are very important!!!!
Rrrrhhh!!! Apa hanya saya yang menganggap bahwa barang sejenis ponsel itu private? Opini saya pribadi sih, walau itu suami/istri/mama/papa sendiri, tapi kalo sampe buka sms baru atau curious buka-buka inbox, ga sopan banget, dweh!
Yah, terserah kalian mau bilang apa, tapi jujur aja, sharing seperti ini annoying banget, especially untuk hal LUPA KASIH TAUnyah!!!

#2: Sharing password email, anything dari dunia maya
Saya ga pernah tau password suami saya dan begitu pula suami saya, dia ga pernah tau password semua akun saya di dunia maya.
Secara, saya punya banyak sekali account di dunia maya, beberapa di antaranya socialite networks.

Buat saya, itu juga sama pribadinya dengan ponsel. Kayaknya sharing password atau bahkan buka bareng-bareng gitu udah ngelanggar privasi. Sebagian orang emang melakukan hal-hal sharing itu bersama pasangannya.
Saya sih, males bareng-barengan begitu mah. Baca email jadi ga khusyu, mau posting juga ga ada ide kalo ada orang di sebelahku. Walau emang, kalo saya dah pake internet layaknya orang autis, tapi saya memang begitu.Risih kalo kudu buka sesuatu bareng-bareng. Apalagi ada banyak forum yang harus saya baca dengan bahasa casciscus (minjem istilah teh Ani), yang rada kudu membuat saya mikir dua kali, bisi salah ngartiin instruksina.

Kebayang ga, siy, kalo misalnya saya lagi baca clue di satu forum, trus papa ilman tuturut putri, baca juga. Makan waktu lama dan boro2 dia tertarik. And all those hundred forums? Mau-maunya kalo iya. Ha ha.

Mungkin romantis kesannya kalo buka apa-apa bareng sampe share password buat akun kita di dunia maya ama pasangan, tapi, amit-amit siy, jangan ampe kejadian ke yang laen juga atau ke saya. Ini kejadian di beberapa pasangan yang bubaran dan sadly, mereka temen-temen deket saya.

Dua pasangan yang divorced dan satu pasangan yang batal tunangan.

Dua pasangan yang divorced ini, definitely dulu sering buka-buka email bareng sampe tau lah data pribadi di inet niy gimana. Dan itu jadi bumerang pas mereka ngadepin sidang perceraian. Salah satu pasangan yang ga terima, ngacak-acak email, kirim email-email dengan kata-kata ga menyenangkan ke beberapa pihak yang membuat temen saya seperti pelaku kejahatan dan masih banyak lagi.
Menurut saya, ini kejahatan dunia cyber, yang sayangnya saya ga tau udah ada aturannya apa belum. Dua temen saya ini, udah mah lagi berat ngadepin hari-hari pasca perceraian, eh, ama mantan pasangannya diteror dengan cara seperti itu yang bikin beberapa pihak malah ga simpati ama keadaan temen saya.

Bahkan, ada niy, yang udah ganti password, masih aja bisa diacak-acak, seperti pasang foto tak senonoh di FS. Sama halnya ama temen saya yang batal tunangan itu, beberapa dari teman-temannya, termasuk saya, sering dapet kiriman foto perilaku porno mereka. Dan setelah diklarifikasi, temen saya itu sama sekali ga pernah ngerasa ngirim, karena dia terlalu sibuk ama hatinya yang berantakan akibat batal tunangan itu, boro-boro rajin kirim email, file fotonya aja dia dah ga punya. Wow! Sudah jatuh, tertimpa tangga pula!
Na'udzubillaahi min dzaalik...

Sekali lagi, ini hanya my humble opinion. Saya akan tetep pada prinsip saya. Sharing tetep perlu, tapi seperlunya, ga perlu sampe sharing hal seprivate underwear, eh, password ama ponsel, ke pasangan sekalipun. So sweet abis emang, bisa sharing dan pake sesuatu bareng-bareng. Romantes lah! Tapi, bahayanya kan kita ga pernah tawu. He he.... Walau amit-amit, ga mau ampe bubaran ama suamiku maaaah... *ngetok-ngetok meja*

Udah, ah! Sekian racauan pagi. Masuk kantor, niy....

*lagi sebel, mendapati salah satu foto karya suami saya diembat orang dan dipake jadi profile picture dan GA BILANG-BILANG dulu!!!! Argh!! Time to bikin watermark segede gaban!!!--> ganyambungmemang*

Thursday, March 12, 2009

OMG!!!!

Salaam...

Yesterday was my happy day!! Yay! You know what? I got a GREAT news!!! What is that? Hanny chatted to me and said that one of my layout was selected to be Editor's Choice of Scrapbookflair! Ow! Ow! Ow! It was an afternoon glory for me!!! Wooohoooo!!!

I never feel a blast off feeling like this before! I mean... okay, I don't have enough self confidence about my layouts. I always feel, they're not really perfect yet. And I am really honored to know this perfect news, while in the morning, I used to talk to my one old friend, tell that I want one of my layout got an award or something like that... I mean, I really want one of my layout got chosen by other people... LOL... and there it was...

I couldn't stop sharing that happy news to anyone! I updated my status in my Facebook account and my plurk too!! And of course, I didn't forget to send an email to Armina, which the layout that has been choosen by Scrapbookflair's Editor was using one of Armina Designs' collaboration kit.

Here is the link to see the award... LOL

And this is my layout that has got Editor's Choice from Scrapbookflair




kit from Forever by Armina Design collab with Fairytale Studio from Digital Candy US

Sunday, March 08, 2009

lagi pengen ngomel

cuma pengen ngomel aja...
sebenernya ini omelan kapan itu...
tapi masih keingetan juga....

I talked to my old friend yesterday. I found that she was asking me to join her to one place, that we can do sumthing there together. A skin care, you name it.
In the middle of chatting, she said that she has to leave soon then left me with a big question mark, WHAT TIME WILL WE MEET THERE? To make it clear, I sent her a short message.

I asked her what time will we meet. It was taking no longer to receive her answer. She said that she cancelled her plan, because she got sumthing to do. She said that she had a job for someone - err... she mentioned a name, it supposed to be a famous guy's name, in her world, not mine.

The way she mentioned that name - the guy whom I supposed to be a very famous guy in her world - seems like stressing me that her job is very great. So much greater than mine. It's okay...


Everytime we talked, I found that she wanted to show that she's very great, very smart, very untouchable, very... you name it. I don't care.

I feel annoyed, actually. I don't like to be compared with anyone. I remember the way she talked to me before she got married. Seems that she was so stressed that I started stepping my life to a marriage world before her.
Seems like she didn't like her to be one step behind me. My only question is: WHY? When she was one, two, three or more steps in front of me, I never feel jealous. That's her way, her destiny, her life too. And I live my life, my way, my destiny.

And I think, every job is great. Even only a maid. That's great. Really. I am very proud to be content analyst. I love to design games or creating story. And I love to scrap soooo much! Is it great? Yes! For me they're very great and hard work!

I just feel annoyed with what she meant to me. Hahaha. I know this is not an important thing. I just don't like the way she mentions a name, to show how great she is now. No! I still feel annoyed!


I think I should have some rest and don't give any damn for anything she said. Okay, she used to be my really best friend who always dropped me for many times. LOL. She made people thinks that I usually escaping from my responsibility for anything. I wish I can tell the world what was really happened... sigh...


I just wanna tell me that no body is mighty among others. Everybody is great. With his/her own life. We are only human. Sumtimes we hurt people only by saying what we have. Sumtimes we hurt people only by show that we are greater than them...


To be honest about ourselves is important but please don't involved another individual just to show how great you are....
and don't be proud just because you already did something for a famous people, especially he/she famous only in your world.... LOL...

thanks so much for wasting your time to read or put comments on this silly notes...
I just feel annoyed now and want to share to you all...
thanks so much in advance...

hugs....

25 things about me...

ampun, deh, beneran...
ga pernah lagi nengokin MP... hiks...
oke oke oke...
nebus rasa bersalah, niy.. masukin note yang gara-gara tag temen di FB ku aja, ya, buat ngebuka lagi pertemananku ama MP... hiks hiks...

this is 25 things about me, walau sebenernya kurang... wakakakak...

Rules:
Once you've been tagged, you are supposed to write a note with 25 random things, facts, habits, or goals about you. At the end, choose 25 people to be tagged. You have to tag the person who tagged you. If I tagged you, it's because I want to know more about you...


ga ngerti sama maksudnya tag-tagan di pesbuk ini... ga di multiply, ga di blogger, ga di friendster, ternyata tag tetep berjalan yah! siyalnya, aku malah demen sama tag satu ini!! hihihi...

1. aku penggemar coklat, terutama truffle.. sualnyah, si truffle tuh rasanya meleleh banget di mulut!!! juga pasta mania

2. suka ngetawain orang-orang yang hanyut dalam kisah dewi persik dan aldi taher, walaupun itu ibuku sendiri... hihihi....

3. orang bilang niy, aku tuh temperamental dan jutek abis..., tapi to tell you the truth, aku orang yang baiiikkk banget....

4. banyak yang ngecap aku kayak anak kecil karena cengeng..., padahal, aku hanya mudah terharu aja...

5. suka ngeledek-ledek KANGEN BAND, tapi tiap nanyain posisi orang yang kucari, pasti pertanyaanku,"Kamu di mana? Sama siapa? Lagi berbuat apa?"

6. suka mupeng liyat kit bagus dan berkhayal jadi CT dari designer itu

7. benci sama eksploitasi anak, terutama hal-hal semacam Idola Cilik! sungguh, ga anak-anak bangetttt!!! dan ya, sangat benci waktu tau Ponari dijadikan aset sama sodara2 orangtuanya!!! iiih! pengen ngejitak!

8. ga suka sama ST 12, tapi hafal banget sama lagunya yang judulnya Saat Terakhir... siallll!!!!

9. masih berusaha bikin layout foto bagus...

10. suka ilfil kalo liyat cowok cakep banget, tapi pake celana melorot yang sampe belahan pantatnya kliatan... weks!

11. aslinya ga suka orang belagu!

12. aku suka banget main game keluaran Game House dan sejenisnya...

13. walau koleksi banyak game The SIMS, cuman satu doang yang dimainin: Life Stories

14. suka bingung kalo ada yang sirik sama aku, secara aku kan lo profile... hihihi...

15. to tell you the truth: aku belum pernah suka sama cowok yang umurnya lebih tua... hihihi...

16. tiap hari aku baca komik Miiko dan Yotsuba&! berulang-ulang, walau udah tau ceritanya ga berubah, tetep aja ketawa setiap kali baca!

17. fan of Pidi Baiq, Afgansyah Reza, Totoro, Ono Eriko, Edhish, Armina, Lily Designs, MataHati Designs, Ibutio, Mizzantie, Tetap Waras

18. pertama kali jatuh cinta blogging pada Multiply, karena merasa blogger ga asik. tapi lama-lama jadi main blogger juga deh!

19. kalo liyat awan putih di langit biru, suka teringat almarhumah ibu dan akhirnya ngobrol deh sama awan... *bukan gila*

20. takut sama kecoa

21. suka anak-anak, dong, apalagi anak sendiri mah!

22. berangan-angan bisa bikin film yang tayang di movie

23. benci sama yang ngebajak cd akal!!!

24. sering pengen negur cowok yang ga mau kasih tempat buat ibu hamil atau ibu gendong bayi di bis, tapi speechless

25. yah, 25 dikit banget, siy! harusnya kan lebih!!!

kayaknya kalo harus tag orang sebanyak itu, rumpi juga ya..
baiklah, saya akan tag beberapa orang aja...

1. Bang Nurul
2. Gita
3. kak Lina
4. Minuk
5. Dokter Vina
6. Uwie
7. Kirana
8. Insan
yang ga ketag, bikin aja lah!